Archive for October, 2005

Life is full of surprises

Saturday, October 29th, 2005

Life is so weird – full of surprises, twists and turns.

Few people disappear from ur life – all of a sudden – without even bidding a good bye. Only then will U realise their importance. I always say this – God sometimes creates vacuum in our life just to make us aware of the presence of Oxygen.

We don’t value the presence of something until we lose it.I was under the impression that even death cannot take this person away from me.

Today I have this feeling – I am stuck in space – in vacuum – no oxygen – and I am worried that I may not be rescued.

U never know when U hv to walk ur life alone – loneliness is ur only partner – learn to live with him – U will never be bored – learn to be ur own best friend

What is more valuable?

Thursday, October 27th, 2005

Love and respect for the relationship shared with the other person or self-respect?

Losing self respect is losing a part of ur character, ur integrity. We can sacrifice anything but self-respect. Self-respect is a vital part of life,

But there are few circumstances where we are ready to even sacrifice self-respect – ready to lose the essence of life – because those people are our life ( more than our life rather). So sticking to our ego and holding onto our self-respect will not make any sense when it comes to people you love.

I always believe in making the first move and speak to the person even though it might make me lose my self-respect. I cross the barrier of ego and do everything to keep the relationship alive as I value relationships above all other things in life.

We all make mistakes, we all err. Few may be deliberate, few totally unintentional. If the mistake is from our side, learn and do not repeat, if it is from the other side, forgive, forget and help him not to do it again. Do not carry the burden – let everything dissolve.

Relationships are very sensitive. During the initial stages they need to be protected from all the odds and adversities. It spawns and ultimately grows into a tree. It will be so deeply rooted that it can withstand rain or sunshine.

Relationship starts as a fine, delicate thread – highly vulnerable. But slowly it turns into a strong rope and finally into an intangible chain which binds us all.

DO NOT STRANGLE A BEAUTIFUL RELATIONSHIP IN THE NAME OF EGO OR SELF-RESPECT

Which is better?

Wednesday, October 26th, 2005

I was wondering… which is better? Suffocating and choking someone through actions or just by words?

My life was blessed on this day

Tuesday, October 4th, 2005

Exactly an year ago, I met this angel. The light which lit my life and made it more beautiful, a new friend who entered my life and proved that the presence of certain people can add a new meaning to ur life.

I am really blessed to have her in my life – I cannot ask for more