Few days back I realized one more truth.
When 2 people are in love, each is the world for the other. The very thought of separation makes them go mad, forget about living without the other person.
But there are few things which can drain all the emotions from the reservoir of heart.
Doubt or distrust – this is a small leak in the reservoir. It pushes emotional level down. This should be patched before the reservoir runs dry. Since it is a leak, you can make out the change as soon as the level starts going down. You have time to act and patch. So – trust is the cement
But there is a larger and more important element in relationship – respect. Respect is the brick. When one is not respected by a stranger, one may not bother much. But when one is not respected by the person one loves, the dam collapses. There would not be any time to take corrective measures. The gushing emotions will wash everything with them.
Respect is the main ingredient – the building block of relationship. Love cannot hold itself up… There is no meaning in loving someone without respecting him/her